As Sutherland put training principles into action, she noticed that not only did her twelve-year-old marriage improve, but she herself became more optimistic and less judgmental. People are animals too. One thing that progressive animal trainer This book is an extended version of a column that Ms.
It reminded me of when my sister said she had heard about some of the methods used to teach birds to talk and she was going to use them to teach her kid to talk. Full of fun facts, fascinating insights, hilarious anecdotes, and practical tips, What Shamu Taught Me About Life, Love, and Marriage reveals the biggest lesson Sutherland learned: From the Hardcover edition.
What if she used their techniques with the human animals in her own life—specifically her dear husband, Scott? In the end, the biggest lesson she learned is that the only animal you can truly change is yourself.
As she says in the book, the problem with a punitive model is that eventually the "animal" gets used to the sting of the punishment, and then there is nothing to do except to raise the severity, which is how well-meaning parents end up beating their children. What started as a goofy experiment had such good results that Sutherland began using the training techniques with all the people in her life, including her mother, her friends, her students, even the clerk at the post office.
The only animal you can truly change is yourself. I picked up the book after reading the column. Sutherland describes the training methods used in modern exotic animal training and applies them to her personal relationships with great success.
Sutherland wrote for the New York Times a couple years ago.
In time, as she put more training principles into action, she noticed that she became more optimistic and less judgmental, and their twelve-year marriage was better than ever. In short order, Scott found his keys and regained his cool.
Nonetheless it is an interesting book. Which is to say, the way you respond to an animal in any situation teaches it something about how to behave - or how to get a desired reaction from you. The author posits that the same thing applies to humans.
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What Shamu Taught Me About Life, Love, and Marriage has ratings and reviews. Nan said: I really enjoyed this book! In many ways it was a light, f /5. Amy Sutherland is the author of Kicked, Bitten, and Scratched and Cookoff.
Her articles have appeared in The New York Times, Los Angeles Times, and The Boston Globe. She has a master’s degree in journalism from Northwestern University. Her feature piece “What Shamu Taught Me About a Happy Marriage,” on which this book is based, was the most viewed and most e-mailed article of The New 4/5(8).
When it comes to romantic relationships, can people be trained just like animals? In “What Shamu Taught Me About Life, Love, and Marriage: Lessons from Animals and Their Trainers,” author Amy. About What Shamu Taught Me About Life, Love, and Marriage. While observing trainers of exotic animals, journalist Amy Sutherland had an epiphany: What if she used their techniques with the human animals in her own life–specifically her dear husband, Scott?
What Shamu Taught Me About a Happy Marriage BYLINE: By AMY SUTHERLAND. Amy Sutherland is the author of ''Kicked, Bitten and Scratched: Life and Lessons at the Premier.Download